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May 12, 2008

Raising Cattle...

Cattle_feedlot_2In Texas I passed this grassless small cattle feed lot on my spring road trip.  Believe me, this was so much less stinky than the huge feedlots west of Amarillo where the cattle can hardly move as they are fattened for market.  They are fed corn, a substance not natural to them, and most get antibiotics (70% of antibiotics are used on animals) because their health suffers in non-natural surroundings and under such stress.

The U.S. livestock industry—a large and vital part of agriculture in this country—has been undergoing a drastic change over the past several decades. Huge CAFOs (confined animal feeding operations) have become the predominant method of raising livestock and every year taxpayers shell out between $7.1 billion and $8.2 billion to subsidize or clean up after our nation’s 9,900 confined animal feeding operations, according to a new report, and these factory operations spew odor and flies (and leak manure and smell to high heaven of ammonia), have reduced rural property values by an estimated astronomical total of $26 billion.(links and information for these CAFO stats and facts via the Ethicurian). Plus,the USDA’s current system of grading is set up so that the more fat marbling, the higher the grading — which shuts out grass-fed meat, writes the Ethicurian in another post.  We try to get grass-fed meat from small local producers and it has less fat and is more healthy for you -- something I learned from the cattle ranchers bringing their meat to the local farmer's market and direct-to-consumer venues here in Santa Fe.

We had cattle, hormone-free, antibiotic free, ranging on our non-fertilized ranch in Texas in the 1990s, before we sold the place and moved to Atlanta, but the meat couldn't be marketed other than to friends and family because it didn't pass through federal meat inspection and it was too small for middle-men to mess with.  Mass production (better profits) is what gets most meat to market. I promise you our way was the healthiest way to eat meat. Those cows were happy cows and it was friend-to-friend meat marketing, outside of normal channels, that made this healthy meat available.  The guy who ran the cattle for free on our land could hardly survive and he turned to all-natural because he felt his wife, dying of cancer, was worth his struggle as he believed agriculture with chemical spraying was the wrong way to go. We concurred and supported the process.  The way we worked with this cattle producer is not how agribusiness is done these days.

We can act to help change policy.  Please go to Ethicurian's post and do more than try to chew the right thing and read more and click their links to be an activist in this area.  It is important that we not sit back and let these unhealthy trends persist.

April 03, 2008

Mothering for Future Gens...

Future_generationsMothers, we can't sit back and worry just about our own.  We must roll up our sleeves and work to make sure our children and their children and their children can have a world worth living in.

How do we do this? We're going through a huge shift and we must act or we'll get upset. 

What can you, can we do?  The future can be bleak but doing nothing is not the answer.   

Mothers know how to look to the welfare of others... we must rise.

March 25, 2008

The Influence of Dads & (Mylie Cyrus) and 3-D Media...

Miley_cyrus_2The role of Dads is out there, big time. For girls, a good Dad is essential and I'm thinking of the Dads in the spotlight at the moment - Billy Ray Cyrus, featured on the cover for the lead story of April's Cowboys & Indians magazine with his daughter Hannah Montana/Miley Cyrus (Miley is short for Smiley, her nickname).   Britney's Dad has control and she's better off for it.  My Three Sons and Leave it to Beaver has shifted for today's appeal to Dad and the Daughter?  Motherhood 101: Dads.

My teenage daughter watched, with her dad, the Disney Hannah Montana shows while we lived in NYC.  It was cute to watch them watch -- my father-daughter duo watching another duo. 

Digital arts is impacting films and Mylie's latest venture shows the appeal of this form which can allow 3-D movies.  10,000 movie theatres are being converted to digital technology capabilities over the next three years.  "Hannah Montana & Miley Cyrus: Best of Both Worlds Concert," a 3-D movie, pulled in $31.3 million in its opening weekend on just 683 screens, (most wide-release films open on more than 3,000 screens and make half that amount).

March 13, 2008

Mom U Morph: Britney Spears...

Britney_animatedThe latest media iteration of Britney Spears is a digital animation rendering, done for the video of one of her latest songs, Toxic.  Moms can morph, especially today online. Britney is on her way to a second life via a character.

Reality of the visual is no longer the actual untouched photograph, which has been the portrait marker of the real until digital manipulation made the real rather fuzzy.  Self as a presentation is the idea here, self as fluid and self in a post-modern way. The lines between real and presented, role and person-behind-the-role, real and digital, public and private are fluid and mothers can be trapped behind the all-defining role of motherhood.  Not Madonna.  Not Britney.  Maybe Angelina (who has morphed into a mother of the world) but... the idea is that morphing, done actually by Britney, is part of life's process. How much of the morphing is driven by Dad?  Can Dad help define her? He's in court-ordered control through July now. He's helped do a one-time mom morph to her kids after a two-month visitation hiatus.  Can Dad help her grow into a good mom? Perhaps it is her morphing that is most intruiging, where and how she is morphing, and how this resonates with us.  Perez Hilton online is the go-to site for heavy internet users for entertainment news and has busted out the brackets to soar with hits over the Britney mess.  While Spitzer's wife stands by her man (see my post on that), George Clooney (post coming up Monday) is a coverman with a cultural message. 

I believe this: once a mother, always a mother.  But the power of parenting Dads is a cultural  shift. Britney escapes the motherhood scenario.  By madness or by choice? Does career subsume life? DadMom takes over for her in her life - her husband and father both step in to mother here. THIS IS A HUGE CULTURAL MORPH.  CraZy?  Read it on a different global societal scale. 

The motherhood angle has subsumed Britney as her fitness has been questioned.  Resurrecting herself as a morphed star (she's going for stardom in a sitcom) is a strategic diversion and the animation iteration, similar to the art of anime, rendering herself as a cartoon, is yet another morph beyond mothering. It is a symbol of reduction.

February 16, 2008

Mothering Challenge...

KChristieH had this video of conjoined twins on her blog this week and all I could think of was the challenge of mothering to each child's identity, fostering aptitudes, talents and spirit, and how well these girls have managed their unique joined lives.   It is heartwarming and leaves me with a thousand questions.  These girls must have been very well mothered.

February 10, 2008

Hanky Panky...

HankyEvery home needs a dog, right?  This is Hank, aka Hanky Panky, belonging to my sister-in-law.  The ashes from our Golden Retriever, Hallelujah, aka Hallie, are waiting at the other sister-in-law's for us to go pick up.  Ashes need plans -- to scatter or whatever. 

Can't bear to go there.  Will not consider a cat named Monkey, either, that my son thinks we need.

December 20, 2007

Playing With The Wee One...

DancingWouldn't these shoes be fun?  What a thing for making "play with" rather than shuffling kids to play alone, or be entertained by....things.

But actually, these TTBs* remind me of how simple it is just to play dancing without any accoutrements.  It just takes two.  It just takes holding hands.

Some wonderful things in life truly are free and simple.

*Things To Buy -- maybe for the person who has everything...

link via boing-boing

October 08, 2007

Everything a Mom says...

Everything a mother says in a day, to the William Tell Overture.  It's good.  It makes me glad my children are old enough to self-manage and my words run through their brain without me saying them!

Thanks to my cousin in Connecticut for passing this good one on!

October 06, 2007

There Was An Old Woman Who Lived in a Shoe...

New_yorker_shoeIf an old woman lived in a shoe today, might it be a Mephisto or somesuch?  Younger women would live in Manolos, maybe, or Jimmy Choo shoes. This nursery rhyme would not make sense now, would it?  Old women having a ton of children? Child-bearing women aren't old now, not even when they are thinking of having children at 50.  Are they?

This New Yorker September cover got me thinking about nursery rhymes.  My children knew them but their pre-school teachers told me many children today don't know them at all.  The New Yorker's audience would get it.  Their age is skewed higher. 

She had so many children, she didn't know what to do.  Do we even know many women like that now?  Mothers today do things like go online posing as a boy to see how much information daughters give to strangers.  Keeping up with kids.  Putting them in a shoe would be much easier.

Can you remember the last two lines of this old English nursery rhyme

October 03, 2007

Science Projects...

Well, we made the volcanoes that spewed lava.  Science projects always call for a lot of time from Mom and Dad -- shopping for materials, creating the workspace and such.  One of our friends timed kids opening up kid-proof medicine bottles and compared them to times spent by elders trying to open them.  Here's a great impressive science project that will get a for-sure A:

Invisible Water...