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February 22, 2008

Part II: Privacy and The (Watching) Eyes...

EyePart II: Privacy & Eyes Looking In:

Starting with the eye as the definition of self, artistically and symbolically in Part I, Eyes Looking Out, I am now in Part II looking at the issue of technology and privacy and wondering how this will alter our very sense of self, our soul and our way of seeing our identities and our world. 

For our children, things will be and are dramatically, radically different, far more different than they already are, tech wise.  Profound changes are altering us in ways that are complex and scary and unfathomable. Like the kohl used for protection around eyes long ago and today (this kohl-lined eye at right is from an Egyptian sarcophagus in the Met), what firewalls or metaphorical kohl and protections will we have?   What will we give up for convenience, for safety, for security and what are the long-term implications? 

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January 30, 2008

E is for Eenie, Meenie, Miney, Whoah...

ExcellentblogSusieJ bestowed this E-Award on me yesterday because I stop and make her think.

Well, think of this. I've lost all my blog lists and stuff that I didn't back up and I'm crying iTears.  I don't have my blogroll up on my site and now I'm up creek. I shouldn't have diddled and piddled and lost the darn thing which is why you should have these things up.

So give you my Excellent Blogger Award list, let's see.  Eenie, meenie, miney, moe, grab a blogger by the (link), and go:

Excellent is for consistency: KChrstieH is consistently interesting and consistently for Obama.

Excellent is for  information:  Jill.  She always catches some interesting tid-bit, like the drunkest city is Denver.  With Santa Fe cracking down on drunk driving, maybe these drivers are going up there?  The heroin capital is Espanola, north of Santa Fe.  I'm being warned to watch for junkie attacks in parking lots in daylight.  The Wild and Wooley West.

And more Excellents: philosophy - The Happiness Project; thinking - Nicholas Carr; interesting trends from Sundog like this cool thing about the Life Cycle of a Blog Post.

Excellent is also for commenting and Allison and Carron, I'd like to you if I could!!!





January 09, 2008

The White House is Blogging...

Wh_bannerWhite House Press Secretary Dana Perino is blogging Trip Notes from The Middle East.  It has a few glitches but she's up and blathering, letting us know she had a great flight on Air Force One to Israel.Perino  The entries have  photos and are accompanied by Perino's pic. 

Rather than the regular Q & A Press Briefing, this gives a personal account.  If only it was W. doing the writing. 

December 23, 2007

Blogging...

Ten years ago this week the term weblog was first used. I've been blogging nearly two years, every day with the exception of a one week summer break.  It is an interesting phenomenon socially. The history of blogging founding myths is interesting background and the history of this thing is really yet to be written.  The way that online conversations take place and the shift to online reading and communication and knowledge is a huge shift. 

There are now 120,000 new blogs being created every day according to Technorati. Posts are being added to blogs at a rate of 17 per second - a total of 1.5 million per day, says the firm.  I've wondered if this is all a pet rock thing but it isn't.  I've not time over the holidays to go deeper into all of this.

Twitter is the latest form of blogging but I'm not there yet.

December 01, 2007

Blogger Comment Changes Stink. Period.

Picture_2I regularly read a bunch of blog friends who use Google's Blogger.  All of a sudden the comments changed.  Since I use Typepad, not Blogger, my choices for comments all of a sudden limit me to using a nickname or being anonymous, both choices which don't provide a way to link back to my site when I comment.

That stinks.  It took me awhile to figure out that Google is roping in their blogging Blogger community and roping out others.  At first I thought my options, being a non-Blogger, had closed me out completely.  But gee.  It is the feedback loops that make the online networks and conversations work.  Blogger has just limited itself and shortchanged its community.

I wonder if this will drive more serious bloggers away from Blogger.

Anyway, I don't like it.  Very clubby, too exclusive.  So my Blogger friends, I hope you shake the trees.  Now there isn't a way for me to leave my email or url for MotherPie for anything I say...   Crummy.

September 19, 2007

Top Google Searches and Top Stories...

MarlboromanWhat brings people here to read MotherPie? What ropes interest?  What information are people riding the search engines to find? It is always interesting and surprising.

Susie J asked her friends to give some thought to the backside stats on their blogs.  What articles pull in readers doing Google searches, she asks.  She got me thinking on this and although I haven't studied it at all in-depth, I can give you searches that bring in readers all the time -- my articles on How to Put a Crease in Jeans and another on Dead Dog in a Suitcase, both of which are top google searches (here and here).  The Dead Dog story was a personally funny one about how urban legends can become your story.  It started with my original story about how my mother spread rumors (or at least she didn't stop them) inadvertently. 

I took photos of the ads for the Marlboro Man when I visited my aunt in the summer of '06 in Colorado. I was the flower girl in his wedding when he married my cousin and I get a lot of visitors from Marlboro Man: An American Icon.  This story gets a lot of hits from all over the world.  I guess the American West has great pull everywhere.  I wrote them when I lived in NYC!  My article on Can Women Have it All? is ranked #1 in Google searches only if the question mark is put in the query.  Go figure.

SusieJ's top story is one on How to Get Rid of Fruit Flies.

I'd be curious to see what the top google searched stories are for these bloggers who write always interesting things:

It is always interesting to see what comes up as the top stories... I'm more intersted in producing original quality content for smart readers with good dialogue rather than researching or building a huge audience. This place is a not-for-profit endeavor. According to my study on blogging (start here for the series), female bloggers do not rank making money as a motivation for blogging.  Some stories I work really hard on and no one cares.  Others are off-the-cuff and people come in.  Put the word naked in anything and sleezy men come looking for that ilk and I thought of taking the "naughty and nice" category off. My grandmother always reinforced nice. Children don't want to be naughty.  This will get a lot of hits from just writing that word. My husband says to quit writing political stories. 

I wonder what my readers, my regular readers, find most interesting.  I wonder what other bloggers find interesting in their google searches.  I wonder.

September 15, 2007

Blah, Blah, Blogging (or What Would You Be Doing Otherwise?)

If I wasn't blogging, right this minute, I'd be doing one of these things:
1)studying for a class
2)organizing files or doing my blogroll
3)taking a hike
4)cleaning a closet or thanking Susie J for making me think about who comes here by google search
5)helping my husband do the taxes

Here's how addicted I am to blogging:

60%How Addicted to Blogging Are You?

Thanks to Big Muck, Deep Rake for the link above.

And you?

August 17, 2007

Blog Break...

Img_8142Life happens.  Shifts in plans and priorities.  Many life changes bring an altered focus and reshaping habits and finding new goals and new directions. They also bring a need for a break!  I've not missed a day of posting since this blog started as a school project in February '06, but I'm not sure where to go with a blog named MotherPie.  I've kept at it through graduate studies, adjusting to a new move to NYC, rebounding children, launching children from the nest, a cross-country move, wedding planning, selling a Manhattan high-rise, moving to the mountains, changing family pace and gears with a now-retired husband and more. It has been a consistent outlet and a fun hobby during interesting times.

Wishing everyone good thoughts, wishing for a nice break. 

 Blog nap time. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz

July 16, 2007

Study Conclusion

Bridges_1 Female Blogging: Issues of Identity,
Relations and Play

note: This is the tenth and final in a series of the MotherPie Blog Study, following:
Introduction
Mom Bloggers: Intensively Engaged in the Blogosphere
Theories of Engaging, Immersing, Linking & Networking...
Blogging Motivations
The Commercialization of the Female Blogs
Social Theory and the Female Blog

Identity and the Self in Blogging
Relevant Feminist Theories
Theories of Attention and Engagement

Conclusion

    This blog study was originally planned as a potential thesis project.  There is certainly more fodder for study.  The project was completed in December 06 for a grade in a New Media Theory class and then publicly published in a ten-part segment on this blog beginning in February 07.

    The idea that the female blogosphere could become an alternative space that might be a complete space or a total world or a substitute for the real world might not be yet imaginable (as might be the alternative reality of Second Life where 90 people this semester earned credit from Harvard for attending classes in the virtual environment there). However, as Frederic Jameson wrote about postmodernism, “… the autonomous sphere of culture is rather to be imagined in terms of an explosion: a prodigious expansion of culture throughout the social realm, to the point at which everything in our social life – from economic value and state power to practices and to the very structure of the psyche itself….consistent with the previous diagnosis of a society of the image or the simulacrum and a transformation of the “real” into so many pseudoevents.(Jameson).

    As I write this conclusion just prior to receiving my master's degree in order to post a permanent online link, I think of the virtual life and real life that continue (I addressed this in a MotherPie post on Webkins) to create a bridge between play and real life.  When I started this project, I thought of the bridge metaphor as a link between the identity created online and the reality of everyday living.  It is a bridge that can be crossed both ways at varying speeds.  The bridge remains the same only the identities on either side are fluid and subject to change.

    The bridge remains an apt visual, as well, for the idea that mothers become a bridge into this world for their children, both physically and metaphorically.  The vast majority of the respondents to the study were mothers so this could be a possible idea for further study -- comparing the online lives of mothers versus females without children.  It was my thought, unstudied, that perhaps women with children, because of the idea of bridging, were more adaptable and more quickly versatile in managing and creating online identities.  Certainly mothers tend to use monikers and anonymous names in order to protect their children and families and to create a boundary between public and private lives, as they feel responsible for not only themselves and their identity but also for the identity and boundaries of the private lives of those they love and care for.

    There remain possiblities to pursue further study with the women who volunteered to participate in more studies on these issues. However, due to time limitations, these will not be pursued at this time.


    Our collective American lives have been segmented and our present culture has isolated and weakened the social and familial fabric.  The idea of reimagining lives and connections is a way of culturally and societally redressing these vacuous results.  People do respond to and change as a result of their environments.  The blogosphere, especially the female blogosphere, is an answer to isolation mothers feel and the need to connect to others that women need.  Place is a social construct and relationships between people and their surroundings and environments is complex.  While the physical environment is being reimagined by architects and urban designers to correct the social flaws of lifestyle design (Knox), women are taking advantage of the opportunities online to create an alternative online virtual space for alternative dioramas of their lives.  Represented by the amount of time these women are spending online, it is an important (and will stay important) part of the daily fabric of lives.

Author Note: Thanks to all     the female and mom bloggers who participated in the November/December survey     and to those who volunteered to publicize the study and survey in their     blogs and via email and also volunteered to be available for further     study.

Here is the permanent link for the online publication of this study with bibliography and citations as well as charts and graphs.

May 28, 2007

Blog Your Life & Social Media...

Isn't it interesting how blogging is a play in identity formation?  A NYTimes article last week on formulating narratives caught my attention as I wind up my media studies and turn to just play with the form  as I take a sabbatical, a life interlude...

This has been a new media outlet adjunct for my studies and a creative space for me but just as I'm transitioning out of school and out of NYC, the blog and its form and shape as far as content will surely change as well and it will become more... ?  How I will change and this space will change is still something I'm thinking about.  Some people blog to drain the brain, some for a creative outlet, some for networking and social outlets, some for documenting lives, some for entertaining, some for an adjunct to work or roles and some as a hobby. There are now over 80 million blogs.  It is more than a pet rock thing.  When Google pays $100 to buy Feedburner, a blog feed business, then it must be getting serious.

Technorati  bought Personal Bee in April and says that conversation can happen around things without having to have a blog.   David Sifrey, founder of Technorati, writes, "Social media has always been social for the people creating it, and now the people consuming it will get to join the fun. Anyone can be a publisher without having to write a blog, create a video, or anything else. All of us, the people formerly known as the audience, can create and publish collections of many forms of media, and attract our own audience if we choose."

Publishing and sharing their ideas...engaging the writer and reader in an open conversation -- this is shifting the internet paradigm, yes, but how is this changing us? Is it democratizing or mediatocracizing?  Will the amateur beat out the professional and will the best sink?  What will command attention?  Big questions.