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June 28, 2006


I absolutly believe the stress and fertility article. I wasn't supposed to be able to have children but when I dove into some stress, diet and excercise changes several years ago ... I got pregnant. For me anyway, that mae all the difference.

I guess I need more stress so I can put an end to this fertility!! (just kidding) Ironic how some can try, try, try forever and some of us try, try, try, not to concieve and we still end up pregnant. THere have been times I was sorely tempted to give my belly to an infertile friend. Maybe I wept more for them, than for me- me expecting without the will to follow through, they nothing to follow through on.

Based on that, I never could justify abortion. I see it as wrong. It's one of the few decisions that I am certain of (for myself) and it renders my consciousness a little more in tune with the fact that there is Some One bigger than I.

That said, I have managed to internally find acceptance (the love for my children is another story, and something over which I have no control- it renders me helpless in decisions of fate. Bone of my bone, flesh of my flesh...Love isn't the word...) and see where perhaps, as Dickens portrays in his works, each one of us, though invisible, has an impact on the moral terpitude of our times.

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